Filing for an Adult Order of Protection for Harassment in Missouri: Timelines & Costs

Current as of: October 4, 2026 Bullying, Harassment & Cyberbullying Missouri
In Missouri, an Adult Order of Protection legally forces a stalker or harasser to stay away from you. There are no court filing fees for this process, and emergency ex parte orders can be granted on the very same day you file.

Enduring constant harassment or stalking is a terrifying experience that disrupts your daily life and sense of safety. Whether someone is constantly showing up at your workplace, flooding your phone with threatening messages, or following you in public, you do not have to live in fear. Missouri law provides a powerful legal tool called an Order of Protection. This court order strictly prohibits the abuser from contacting you, coming near your home, or approaching your place of employment.

Understanding the exact legal steps required to secure this protection is vital for your immediate safety. The legal system moves quickly in these cases, but the paperwork must be precise. You can easily find a compassionate and experienced family law attorney in our US Attorneys Directory to guide you through this stressful process and represent you effectively in court.

Domestic Violence vs. Stalking Orders in Missouri

In Missouri, Orders of Protection are divided into two main categories based on your relationship with the abuser. If the harasser is a spouse, former spouse, family member, or someone you have lived with or dated intimately, you will file under the Domestic Violence provisions governed by Mo. Rev. Stat. § 455.010.

However, if the person harassing you is a stranger, a neighbor, a coworker, or a casual acquaintance, you must file for an order based on stalking or sexual assault under Mo. Rev. Stat. § 455.020. Stalking requires proving that the person engaged in a purposeful course of conduct (two or more acts) that caused you to fear for your physical safety or caused substantial emotional distress. The precedent in Towell v. Steger, 154 S.W.3d 471 (MO Court of Appeals 2005) demonstrates that courts require objective evidence of a repeated pattern of unwanted behavior to justify a stalking protective order.

Step-by-Step Process to File

Whether you need protection in Columbia, Independence, or St. Charles, the process begins at your local county courthouse.

Step 1: Filing the Petition

You must fill out Form AA40, Missouri, Circuit Court, Adult Abuse/Stalking Petition for Order of Protection. In this document, you will write a detailed, factual statement explaining exactly what the harasser did, when they did it, and why you are afraid. You will file this paperwork with the court clerk at a local court, such as the Boone County Circuit Court, Columbia or the St. Charles County Circuit Court, St. Charles.

Step 2: The Ex Parte Order

Because harassment can escalate quickly, the judge will review your petition immediately. If the judge believes you are in present danger, they will issue an "Ex Parte" Order of Protection. This means the order goes into effect immediately, even before the harasser is notified or has a chance to speak to the judge. This temporary order usually lasts for 15 days.

Step 3: The Full Order of Protection Hearing

Within 15 days of the Ex Parte order, the court will hold a formal hearing where both you and the harasser must appear. This is a mini-trial. You must present the evidence you gathered-such as printed text messages, terrifying voicemails, threatening emails, and police reports. If you successfully prove your case by a preponderance of the evidence, the judge will issue a Full Order of Protection, which can last from 180 days up to one full year, and can be renewed.

What Happens if the Harasser Violates the Order?

An Order of Protection is not just a piece of paper; it carries severe criminal weight. If the harasser texts you, drives by your house, or asks a third party to contact you, they are violating the order. In Missouri, a first-time violation is typically a Class A Misdemeanor, punishable by up to one year in jail. Repeat violations escalate to felony charges, carrying mandatory prison sentences.

How Much Does it Cost in Missouri?

The state of Missouri ensures that victims of abuse and harassment are not blocked from safety by financial barriers.

Expense TypeEstimated Cost in USD
Court Filing Fees$0. There is no fee to file a Petition for an Order of Protection.
Service of Process$0. The local Sheriff's Department serves the papers for free.
Private Attorney FeesGenerally $1,500 to $3,000 for representation at the formal hearing.

How Long Does the Court Process Take?

The initial Ex Parte order is usually granted on the exact same day you file your petition. The formal hearing must be scheduled within 15 days. If the Sheriff cannot locate the harasser to serve them the legal paperwork, the judge will extend the temporary Ex Parte order until the respondent is successfully served.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Do I need a lawyer to file for an Order of Protection?

You are not legally required to have an attorney. You can file the paperwork yourself (pro se). However, having a lawyer at the formal 15-day hearing is highly recommended, especially if the harasser hires their own defense attorney to cross-examine you.

Can a protective order restrict the harasser's firearms?

It depends on the relationship and the specific relief granted. Under federal law (18 U.S.C. § 922(g)(8)), firearm prohibitions apply automatically only when the order involves intimate partners or family members. For non-domestic stalking or harassment orders involving neighbors, coworkers, or acquaintances, firearm restrictions are not automatic under federal law, but a Missouri judge has statutory discretion under Mo. Rev. Stat. § 455.050 to explicitly prohibit the respondent from possessing firearms if requested.

Can I get an order against a minor who is bullying my child?

Yes, but you will use a different form. You must file a Petition for an Order of Protection on behalf of a child (Child Order of Protection), which is handled in the Family or Juvenile Court division.

What if the harasser lives in another state?

You can still file for the order in the Missouri county where you reside. Under federal law (18 U.S.C. § 2265), a Missouri order is fully enforceable by police in all 50 states.


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